THE PAIN OF REJECTION

Have you ever loved a girl? If the answer to the question is positive you have surely hit a jackpot.

As a matter of fact, each and every guy that I have known to exist has been smitten by a girl at some point of time in his life but out of this lot only a meager amount has confessed to their lady love. Can u guess why? What stops a man from baring his heart in front of the woman he loves? It’s nothing but ‘THE PAIN OF REJECTION’. What if she says no? What if she rejects me out rightly? These kinds of questions brew up in a lover’s mind.

Men simply can’t take the humiliation of being discarded by a girl. Instead of pondering over the process men fear the result. Don’t bother about the reply just say what your heart says. If the answer is yes, then awesome and if it’s a no then I must tell you that you are very lucky because what makes a difference is how you carry ‘THE PAIN OF REJECTION’.

Usually people get bogged down and depressed after being rejected, they loose the reason and motive to live. They find new imperfections in themselves and feel inferior to others.
But if you want your girl you’ll have to rise above the pain of being rejected and roll up your sleeves to get her.

You’ll have to ask yourself the question that ‘What was lacking in me so that she had to overlook me’? Then through an introspecting session and your conscience come up with the flaws in you and try to improve upon them. Then with a new polished and improved version of yourself hit back again to woo the woman of your life but beware u may get more negative replies ( as no one has a control over the matters of heart but god ). But you don’t give up and try until she is impelled to like you. You’ll find that in doing so you have excelled and achieved a great deal in life.

If you don’t believe me I have a petite and true story for you……..

A man named Rajiv Bhatia loved a girl from the deep depths of his heart. He proposed to the girl and she rejected him for a guy named Akshay Kumar. Rajiv was heart broken. But then he decided to do something substantial in his life and show her what she had lost. Now we know this Rajiv as the actor ‘AKSHAY KUMAR’.

So guys don’t sit back dreaming and fantasizing about the girl you love, sweep her by the feet looking into her gleaming eyes & enchant those magical words into her lovely ears hoping to be accepted and if you are not then you have a very good chance of becoming the next ‘AKSHAY KUMAR’ of India.


BY
NIPUN GUPTA
(Straight from the heart)
B-TECH (1st year)
PULP AND PAPER ENG.
IIT ROORKEE